Ok, midlife men, let’s talk about the ‘beer belly’. Pleasant topic, I know. Let’s do it anyway. Beer belly or pot belly is a colloquial term for abdominal obesity or belly fat. Some people attribute the unsightly fat…
There seems a temptation among some of us to want to hurry up and get back into some relationship as if to suggest that it is ‘unnatural’ or ‘bad’ to be single and unattached. Sometimes this is referred to as a ‘rebound’…
It seems we men have come to believe that our sexual capability is THE central measure of our manhood. It’s sort of an unspoken rule. It started with comparisons, snickers and comments in the junior high shower after PE class and the emphasis…
We kind of throw the word ‘depression’ or related expressions around pretty loosely these days, “That was a depressing experience” or “I’m just depressed today." Usually it is intended more as a figure of speech…
The word, mojo, comes from the African word that means to cast a magic spell or charm, to possess magical powers. For us then, mojo has to do with our personal magnetism or charm which we use to attract and seduce women. It’s our schtick,…
Think of the melancholy you get from listening to the song sung by Joan Baez, Where Have All the Flowers Gone? “Where have all the flowers gone, long time passing...” I think that it is what many of us feel when we think…
“Looks like he’s having a midlife crisis…,” they mutter amongst themselves when a man buys his dream Corvette or changes his hairstyle after 25 years. Family and friends seem to consider every change made by a 45 or 50…